Aidan James Gavin Durling

2009 - 2008
LocationLeeds
Age0
Cause of DeathStill Birth
Date of Birth01/01/2009
Date of Death29/12/2008
Visitors1,519 since 10/03/2009
Creator

Our precious son Aidan was born sleeping at 33wks on 1st January 2009, he weighed 2lb 4oz and was
approx. 12inches long. He was diagnosed with anencephaly at our 12week scan and we were given the
option to end the pregnancy but we decided to continue. Anencephaly is a condition said to be
'incompatible with life'.
At 28/29 weeks I developed severe polyhydramnios which proved too much for Aidan.
On the morning of 29th December 'something' happened to me that I can't explain but I knew it was
Aidan saying goodbye, my worst fear was confirmed later that day when we went to the hospital.

Mummy and Daddy will always love you Aidan, fly free sweet angel and we are sending you lots and
lots of floaty kisses for you to catch.

My Angel

It was so special that day in June
When we found out we were expecting you
Our family would be complete
When you arrived and made our two

Then came the day of our first scan
A little bit earlier than normally planned
But you were hiding high up inside
Therefore it was hidden for them to find

The blow came next on our second scan
They told us you weren’t quite complete
Your head was poorly but it didn’t matter to us
You’d still be our special boy

The days that followed were dark and bleak
But we looked forward week by week
Your heart so strong
Made it feel nothing was wrong

How wrong was I when you died inside
Your heart gave up but that’s okay
My special Aidan, have fun you hear
Your pops will keep you safe and near

You’ve been set free oh special son
‘Til that day we meet again
You’ll never know how much it hurt
That the love I have couldn’t make you work

Where did mummy go wrong
All I wanted was you to be strong
So, go now Aidan, you are complete
And fly my angel with those wings so sweet

I love you more than you could know
But now it’s time to let you go
Goodnight my baby

Love always, your mummy x x x


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well aidan, I can't believe it's been 8months since I met you for the first time, how special was that day that I got to hold you and kiss you. You were so tiny and already sleeping but that didn't matter to me, you were still my special boy.
My heart breaks for you everyday Aidan and I wish you could be with us but our time will come when we'll be together again.
See you later when I come to your garden to spend some time with you.
Big hugs and floaty kisses for you all day everyday, mummy x x x

Zoe Durling (Mummy) September 1, 2009

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♥ in your ear how much ♥
♥ we love and miss you ♥
♥ and wish that you were here♥
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Emma Robinson (GTS Friend) August 13, 2009

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Kathleen McGarr Foster July 28, 2009

hey precious, mummy just wanted to send you lots of floaty kisses and cuddles on your 6month birthday. I miss you so so much and wish you were here by my side. Love always Aidan x x x x

Zoe Durling (Mummy) July 1, 2009

Just wanted to pop in and say hello gorgeous, mummy's heart is broken for you but we will meet again one day, until then, here's some bif floaty kisses for you, mwah, mummy xxx

Zoe Durling (Mummy) April 30, 2009

Just dropping by to say hello

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to a very special angel.

all my love always love u Aidan. xox

Danielle Coe-Wysong (Friend) April 19, 2009

Happy easter handsome. Mummy, daddy and reiss miss you so much, we came to your garden today, I hope you like your easter balloon we brought and the butterfly grandma sent for you too. Your garden is looking good now baby.
Love you always and miss you more, mummy x x

Zoe Durling (Mummy) April 12, 2009

hey baby, auntie vanya thinks of you a lot and wishes she could give you a big cuddle like she does with your big brother reiss!! i hope you are having fun up there with pops and all your other angel friends!! happy easter baby kisses and hugs x x x x x

Vanya Birdsall (Auntie) April 10, 2009

I have lit a candle for you today so you can shine brightly tonight for mummy and daddy, we love and miss you so so much Aidan. Sending you lots of kisses and cuddles x x x

Zoe Durling (Mummy) April 4, 2009

It's been 3 months since you were born Aidan and there is not a day goes by where my heart doesn't ache for you, I miss you so so much.
I hope you like how mummy and daddy have your garden, we like making it look special for you.
Lots of floaty hugs and kisses just for you from your mummy x x

Zoe Durling (Mummy) April 2, 2009
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